Thank You!
**FYI...Aliza is being baptized on Saturday (March 1) at 9:00 am at the Legacy Building in Plano. We would love for anyone to come who would like to. We will also have a light brunch at our home immediately following and we'd love for y'all to be there!our last 24 hours
{on Culture, and playing with your food}
Pictures {basketball}
Oh.
But I have a question. Has anyone seen the Obama commercial about education where his first 2 sentences are:
"I didn't grow up rich.
My father left me when I was young."
And then he starts to talk about what a good education he was able to get.
What?? Was it because he didn't grow up rich, or because his father left him?
Shout out to my Turkish Family
Marsha, Marsha, Marsha!
Bitter, huh?
So, in case anyone out there is questioning why I blog, I want to make it clear.
1. I want an easy way to keep in touch with my family and friends back in Utah. I can post pictures of my kids and don't have to mail prints to my mom or mil every couple of weeks. They can see what we are doing and see how the kids are growing and changing.
2. Blogs have become one way that I have fun with my new Texas girlfriends. I have made many dear, and what I hope will be life-long, friends on line. Ironically, when I pull up my site-meter, I get more hits from Texas than Utah. Maybe my Utah friends are losing interest in me!
3. I have some friends from various parts of my life that, if we are honest with ourselves, I would have lost track of long ago except for the occasional Christmas cards. These friends have blessed my life in imeasurable ways. We have tried e-mail off and on, but with our blogs, we have truly reconnected. At least I feel like we have.
4. My blog is a fun way to keep a journal. I blog about random thoughts sometimes. Sometimes I throw stuff in that only a few select will even understand. It is my little shout out to ya. One of my Utah friends called last night laughing hysterically at a post that brought back some funny moments we have shared. And no, I usually don't blog about stuff that sucks. I'm not trying to pretend that my life is perfect or that Maris and my kids don't bug me sometimes. I just choose not to air it publicly. I also am a glass-half-full person. I believe that focusing on positive things and having gratitude for what I have been blessed with is better for me than focusing on the fact that Aliza hasn't taken her clothes that I folded and put them away yet or that I can't stand that Maris, well, you probably don't need to know all that. I also believe that we are only as happy as we allow ourselves to be. Some of my happiest times were during Maris' month of unemployment. We chose to dwell on our blessings, not feel sorry for ourseves. That month was followed by 1 1/2 years of financial struggles. And I cannot believe how blessed we were in that time. That time led us here. "Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want." Trials are how we grow. Focus on the blessings of your trials, not the heartache.
5. One more thing I love love love! is that I have met such fun people, which was never my intention when I started blogging. I have become friends with Jennifer, who is Adri's cousin who lives in California, who also happens to be friends with my friend Lisa here in Texas. I have found new people to admire and to learn from and to uplift me and make my life better. I have corresponded with some friends of Heidi's who live in Texas, and one who lives in Wahington DC. (BTW Heidi, I can see why you loved Nawlin's so much, you met some awesome people there!)
Sorry for the ramble....I love you all. You are the reason I blog.
Oh, I forgot. I also like the creative outlet. :)
Blah, blah, blah....
Last Thursday, we had Valentine's parties at the school. When I have been room mom in the past, I used to have mom's calling and begging to help with parties. In fact we had to kinda stagger them and say if you helped with Christmas (oh, I mean "Holiday," we must be politically correct) then someone else gets to help with Valentine's. In Parker's class, we had the room mom and me. There were only 3 moms in Liza's and 3 in Ty's. And it is the same 3 moms from the Holiday party. There are a couple of us who have multiple kids and party jump to try to help all. It is just different.
One thing I like is that each grade level has a lead room mom, and the room moms from that grade all get together and plan the party. They use the money budgeted to them from the donations at the beginning of the year (recommended $10 per child and then divided between 3 parties) and each class in the grade level has the same party, but in their own classrooms. It very effectively eliminates the competition between overzealous room moms who have a tendancy to overdo things. For instance, in Parker's class, the 4th grade room moms ordered a craft from Oriental Trading and all the 4th grade did the same craft. They all had a chocolate fountain and dipped fruit, pretzels and marshmallows. They all had the same punch, the same games and cookies. Socialism at it's best.
Anyway, here are some snapshots of the day:
{this week I Love...} Valentine's edition
Since today is Valentine's Day, here is this week's special edition of "this week I love..."I love sappy movie quotes:
"This kind of certainty comes but once in a lifetime."
"I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it."
"When they ask me what I liked best, I'll say it was you."
"I want to tell you with my last breath that I have always loved you."
"There are only four questions of value in life. What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made of? What is worth living for? What is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love."
"Have you never met a woman who inspires you to love? Until your every sense is filled with her? You inhale her. You taste her. You see your unborn children in her eyes and know that your heart has at last found a home. Your life begins with her, and without her it must surely end."
"I am just a girl standing in front of a boy asking him to love her."
{the week in pictures}
I tried to get Tyler in this picture, but he moved out of the way...I tell ya, that kid just thinks he is too cool for school!!
So yesterday, our cell phone bill came. Tyler's phone had a $158.00 charge for 15 megs of downloads. When we called AT&T, they said that it looked like his phone was randomly connecting itself to the internet in the middle of the night and trying to download. They said sometimes that happens. What? He has a little Sync phone that couldn't hold that much info if it tried, and it sounds like it is possessed! I tell ya, one day our electronics are going to take over the world!
And I am sorry if nothing in this post is spelled right, I can't type and spell at the same time and blogger has broken it's spellchecker.
Official Tag Week
A. The rules of the game are posted at the beginning.
B. Each player answers the questions about themselves.
C. At the end of the post, the player then tags 5 fellow bloggers.
10 years ago: hmmmm, 1998. What I remember about 1998 is that I had 2 children under 2. It was full of diapers and wipes. I quit my job at US West that year and became an official full-time mommy. Maris went on commission for the first time, scary! We had been married for 4 years, and we felt like we had really made it! On a sadder note, Maris' dad passed away. My mom had moved to Idaho, and the boys and I went there, A LOT!
5 things on my to-do list today: 1. I am taking dinner to my neighbor, so I need to make sure that is ready and taken care of. 2. I'm going to supervise Maris as he (finally) takes the lights off the house and applies pre-emergent to our lawn. 3. Iron 4. PTO meeting tonight (Aliza is singing and has a speaking part at it!) 5. Go to Hobby Lobby and get 50% off scrapbooking supplies to prepare for my scrapbooking weekend in Weatherford this weekend!
Snacks I enjoy: man, what snacks do I not enjoy? I like Blue Bell ice cream, Mindy Mints, Snickerdoodles, banana bread, white hot chocolate non-fat with a shot of sugar free raspberry syrup....
Things I would do if I were suddenly made a billionaire: Travel, share, I don't know, is that sad?? I really feel like at this time in my life, I have everything I have ever wanted. I'm easy to please! Mostly what I want can't be bought.
3 of my bad habits: 1. I spend too much time on the computer. 2. I am a little ornory with Maris. 3. I am obsessive.
Jobs I have had: 1. Lagoon games department (age 15). 2. Lagoon Photo department (age 16 and 17). 3. US West (telephone operator, 11 years!) 4. Substitute teacher 5. Farmington City (Youth City Council advisor and events coordinator). 6. Mom (the best job on the list.)
Things people don't know about me: What? I have a blog, everyone knows everything about me! OK, OK, I read postsecret.
I tag: Lisa, Amanda, Sarah (take that!), Holly, and Rachelle. And anyone else who wants to so this one (it is kinda a fun one!) but I had to tag 5...
I'm answering Sarah's tag...
The pictures I didn't take.
Here is a picture of Tyler and Parker at the McFarland's house, getting ready to take plastic sacks around for Scouting for Food. Aren't they handsome??
Here they are goofing off with the other scouts and eating their Krispy Kremes.
Oh! Here's a great one! It is Aliza and Emily at the Kroger Pharmacy trying on reading glasses! They are so funny and soooo cute!
Here we are getting our chores done before we go to basketball games! The kids are working so hard and doing such a great job!
Parker's game! They lost to a comp team that plays in the rec league, but they only got beat by 7 baskets. (that sounds better than 14 points!) Here is Parker now! He is happy because he scored 3 of our team's 5 points!
And here we are at Aliza's game. They look so sharp in their royal blue jersey's! They lost too, but Liza is getting better and better at dribbling and passing to her own teammates!
We missed the first part of Ty's game (at Aliza's) but we made it in time to catch this awesome layup! T scored 12 of our team's 22 points and we won 22-5.
Here I am dropping Ty off at Christian's house for an evening of games with the boys from his church class. Can you see me crying because this is the 2nd Saturday night in a row that he has gone out with friends?
And here is me and Maris when we got home from taking Liza and Parker to Jalepeno Tree, listening to the message from the little girls who are calling T. Leave T alone, little girls! He is still mine.
After Ty's game, I was approached by a man wondering how long we have lived in Prosper and what other sports does he play? He had been watching (what a stud) T is on the basketball court and wondered if he plays baseball? He said he could imagine with his obvious athletic ability that he was a pretty good player. He coaches baseball in Prosper and is going to be watching him at the tryouts...(which are next Sunday, so....). Anyway, I can't believe how much T has broken out of his shell and how aggressive he has been this year in basketball. He is doing awesome, and we are excited to see what he brings to baseball. Time will tell!
Well, time to go pick my boy up from his night out with the boys. I hope you enjoyed my pictures that I didn't take!
Quotables
"Other things may change us, but we start and end with family."
"How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard..." from Annie
"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.”
-Audrey Hepburn
Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.





